Hoarding a piece of feelings at a time.
What is it like?
Even though it won't be revealed, I'm sure our pure affection will definitely reach the person we're aiming for.
....... Even if it's late or not in our reference of time.
In terms of feelings, happiness becomes an innocent thing.
Often we ignore the feelings that are owned by ourselves, because we are more concerned with the feelings of others.
Sometimes we enjoy pain and sadness.
These become part of the feeling of anxiety if something bad happens to that person.
In fact, sometimes the ego is defeated, "As long as you are happy, I'm okay."
From the moment the feelings echoes in the mind, we could be blinded by it.
Logically goes, but is completely defeated by feelings.
If it's like that, whether we like it or not we are willing to sacrifice, willing to do something as long as the person can live a good life.
Even though the feelings isn't mutual, are we sure we are sincere?
Initially, it is undeniable that the sense of belonging always arises.
The feelings of wanting to be together.
The desire to continue to be considered there.
The fondness of wanting to be used as a reinforcement.
Stage of Being Sincere
However, there are those who reach the stage of being sincere.
She believes that basically, everything she does is to give happiness.
''It is more happiness to give, not to receive!"
Maybe we think that as a giver of happiness, there will surely be times when she will get bored, right?
That's right, the giver of happiness will feel boredom. However, if she is sincere, the giver of happiness will not think too much about reciprocity.
『The real test of sincerity is to see whether a person will help you even if he knows he will get nothing in return. The truth is anyone can help when there’s something to gain; but to help when there’s nothing in return shows true love & a beautiful heart』- Mufti Menk
The giver of happiness becomes someone who is good, continues to help, and is certain because there is a basis of feeling. But, when she is sincere, and stops giving happiness, it doesn't mean she is tired and reluctant to be a source of happiness for that person.
About Priority
It could be, she has found someone she prioritizes more. Because of that, this feeling shifts to the person she thinks is more deserving of it.
And once again, as long as you are happy that is fine, but as long as yourself are happy, has it ever occurred to you?
Well, let's consider for a moment, before we give something good.
As long as you are happy, but I do not suffer.
Also Read : Happiness Starts Within
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