25s Insecurities

Quarter-life crisis they said, uh? 

Reaching the age of quarter centuries, branches of mind, stressful working condition, friends' successful stories, high standard of life from influencers, cultivating into one point, 

I N S E C U R I T I E S 

Nowadays, insecurities have become the most spoken topic, especially for youth generations. As it really happens in my surroundings, when exploring social media, you'll find some feed that would post about this topic.

Why do we feel insecure?

Well, I'm not gonna talk about somebody else's, I'm gonna talk about what I really feel. 

After struggling for formal education until I graduated and maintaining to get my job, here I am, talking nonsense in this blog. Actually I'm not good at discussing it, or I just haven't found a person to discuss it, no idea. But, it's really dancing in my mind, so I think it's the time to write about it, preventing it from exploding in my mind. hahaha. 

Well, they said that 'Privilege' matters. Some people do have this privilege for their life, some do not have such a thing. 

I do agree with that, to be precise we're having different beginning to achieve something. So that, different processes, and different finishes. You may not agree with that kind of 'privilege' thing, eh?

If we're talking about it, we should actually realize that, we're not defined by certain ages to be called a successful person, am I right?

Maybe when you're becoming one of the 'Sandwich Generation', that's still striving for earning money to pay your family's needs, you got the job, but you can't be such a decent person that is already married with their loved one, having their own houses, and business. They could make some other side jobs, travelling overseas, in contrast you're still busy with your own life. 

If it's counted and seen only from one perspective, then you could say that life is unfair, isn't it?

Then something called, insecurities will be the right term to define your mood. 

But, is that so?

  Also read Perfect with imperfections

I should admit that, sometimes I do feel insecurities strike my head. That would make myself become a loser, having low self-esteem. 

However, I choose to not feel that any longer. 

I do feel that, but I should see something from a different point of view (Still trying to do that). 

In my opinion, we should recognize our feelings, admit that, and accept that. If we already recognize ourselves better, we could take another step to get up. 

The key of all the things is we should be more grateful and loving ourselves. 

Stargazing a future :D

'' Fall in love with taking care of yourself. Fall in love with the path of deep healing. Fall in love with becoming the best version of yourself but with patience, with compassion and respect to your own journey.''  - S. Menutt

We want everything to be perfect, we have abundant willingness, high expectation on something, but how if 

We choose to embrace all that we have been and are with love, acceptance and tenderness?

By loving ourselves, we can take better care of ourselves. We then know how to begin to accept our true self, not blaming all the failures that we made. And we will gain more because we know how to improve ourselves with patience, compassion, and we know the best for ourselves because we have our own path, our own timing, our own journey. 

Taru wo shiru mono wa tomu. 

I am content with what I am.

Also read I am content with I am. 

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