People drift in and out of our lives.
We now say goodbyeーtomorrow perhaps will say another hello.
As long as we're alive, we may experience new encounters, breakups, and endings. We're connected by relationship—whether acquaintanceship, friendship or love.
Most of the relationships we have with people will end, whether through growing apart, an argument, or death that will tear us apart. Well, that's life, eh?
People come into our life; they walk in and out for one reason or another. And that's life!
Some encounters may come in unexpected ways.
Either it's a blessing or a lesson.
Maybe everyone serves a different purpose in our lives.
We didn't realize until then, that those people are meaningful, having an impact that could have such a big effect on our life.
And we can call it a blessing.
Some are just coming to give us lessons.
The heartbreak we feel is there to make us stronger.
They come because we need to learn something; to cope, to love sincerely, to be patient, to grow, etc.
They teach us something new about ourselves.
Well, some may just pass by even without us noticing them.
Our lives are made up of so many people.
Sometimes we don't realize that we actually keep a little bit of each person we meet.
However, people tend to underestimate their impact they have on others.
For examples, I'm still listening to the song I once thought I hated, which was recommended by my friend; I'm still using the same skincare that was given by my acquaintance; a stranger suggested I buy a wireless Bluetooth that I used until now.
When people become parts of our lives, some parts remain long after they leave. Maybe it's a fleeting memory, favorite songs, recommendations, or habits that we just can't seem to get rid of.
Even if the people don't stay, the memories do.
Our sincere hearts don't want to let them go.
It's often said that some people will stay, but they will eventually go.
It hurts.
You and I have perhaps experienced a lot of pain and loss when people leave our lives.
In some cases, it will be a very traumatic experience for people, as the idea that we had a deep bond with someone we care about.
And when that person decides to walk out of our life, we feel abandoned.
And we could understand that these kinds of grief aren't the same.
We don't meet people by accident.
I believe that people don't meet by accident.
They come to us for the time being, and when their time's up, they need to go to another chapter of others people's life.
At least, we all know that many relationships can change or end dramatically.
So, we should wonder if it's worth using up our energy trying to understand other people's reason for going?
Instead, we can think that although people will not stay forever, they come across to help us grow.
Their presence creates a lasting remark on us forever.
There are so many memories that lie within ourselves from the people in the past.
And it's somehow comforting to know there are so many lives you're still a part of that you have no idea about.
There are some fragments which are entangled with all the people we've met.
I hope that I can leave a lasting piece of myself in the people that I've loved and have loved me.
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