Senin, Februari 27, 2023
Selasa, Februari 21, 2023
Perhaps, you see that others' people life are more colorful.
However, No, no.. That don't always happen that way.
Learn to be more grateful. Learn to be more ok.
This world is on rush. Full of people seeking for meaning.
The day without a meaning is also a good day.
Let's keep calm and enjoy the mundane life.
Because who knows, 『nothing happening means a gift from God to be in peace』.
Senin, Februari 20, 2023
Sabtu, Februari 18, 2023
A Short Escape and A Sudden Decision
Do you prefer to make a sudden decision or get fully prepared before you travel?
Well, sometimes I describe myself as a decisive person because I tend to decide something very briefly. That was the time when I had a mood to get some fresh air. I called it "A Short Escape and A Sudden Decision" for my past experience travel to Solo and its surrounding.
Keraton Mangkunegaran |
I was reflected about my sudden decision to go to my friend's place just about my current life lesson, which is said, "Sometimes when you least expect it, good things happen". That's about the time when I wanted to hang out somewhere not far from my town but not too close, also with a small budget :). And... woala! I felt happy for that short trip.
Go with The Flow
I asked a friend whether she could have a day off on the day I planned to visit her house. Unexpected thing had happened, she had a day off at that day because there was also her friend who would going to visit her home, the same time as mine. What a coincidence!
For make a long story short, there came the time when I was with my friend riding a motorbike from Ungaran to Klaten on that day. That was my first experience to travel there by motorbike. I didn't feel wore out because my mind was full of curiosity during the way there.
Klaten - Solo - Karanganyar
After almost two hours, finally we arrived safely to Klaten. Now, there were four of us. A good conversation just come out naturally, even though I was the oldest of them all. I was happy as they just speak to me casually. We talked about our jobs, Campus flashback, current relationship 😅, and many things. For some time, we had no idea where to go. Let's eat good foods first! Hahaha.
Fried Gurame or whatsoever (I don't remember). Very delicious😋 |
However, because we had been there, it wasn't complete if we didn't go to 'Umbul' to go for swimming. Actually, there is a famous place to go, but we weren't going there. It's much worthy then the famous one I guess. So, lesson learned. In this kind of situation, it's better to trust a person originally from the village.
Umbul Besuki |
Some pics we captured at Mangkunegaran |
Candi Cetho |
I Least Expect It and Good Things Happen
I don't really expect anything from this trip. I just want to go somewhere and enjoy my day off, let's say I don't want to stuck in my bed all day hahaha. However it turned out to be one of a good trip. Another lesson learned: "Don't put to much hope because it will hurt you so much, because sometimes when you least expect it, good things happen."
Sabtu, Januari 21, 2023
Kamis, Desember 22, 2022
Einstein's Law of Focus, he is a real genius! |
- 1. Create three columns: professional, personal (family, friends, etc.), and extracurricular (side projects, personal goals, etc.)
- 2. Choose one or two items from each list that are the most important (and hopefully also provide the greatest return), and put a star beside them.
- 3. Identify items that you could stop doing, today, without suffering any real consequences, and cross them out. Think of this step as pruning.
- 4. Look at the unmarked items and create a one- to three-week plan to complete them (or escape from them). Maybe that will mean not working on the starred projects for a short period of time, but that's OK. Think of this step as weeding.
- 5. Focus on the one or two important things that remain in each category -- and be ruthless about not adding any new items to the list, at least for a while. Just work the list.
Selasa, Desember 20, 2022
「From now on, I can be who I want to be」 『 Ha... Is that so? 』*Gudetama |
Happiness comes from within you. You'll never find it by chasing relationship, money, jobs, beauty. Happiness always starts within.
Minggu, Desember 18, 2022
my pandemic photo shoot of graduation |
another pandemic Photoshoot (online Photoshoot) |
Sabtu, Desember 17, 2022
「 For a while it was a hot sunny day
I ordered a glass of Iced Chocolate
Then came the rain
''Little bit cold, huh?"
I decided to put on my jacket
I drunk my Iced Chocolate
I forgot about the weather
I just continued to sip on my Iced Chocolate
Increasing my mood was my only intention 」
Life's just like that.
It happens to be a high up and a low down.
The tremendous feeling somehow just struck us without any sign.
It's just temporary.
Everything in this world is just passing by.
It's good to admit our feeling. Our sadness. Our happiness. Our emptiness.
.... And we can pile up again.
On a day, I was curious about Ninja, so I ended up to watch a YouTube video. But then, surprisingly I got really good words from him,
"I believe life has its ups and downs. If you're at your worst, you can only go up from there. For those who are doing well, try to maintain that. Make sure not to come down. But there will be times things get tough. So try to figure out a way so that you don't fall too hard. But if you come down, you'll eventually go back up. And when you're up, try to prepare for when you fall so it won't as bad. "
Minggu, Desember 11, 2022
Tidak ada persahabatan yang sempurna di dunia ini. Yang ada hanya orang-orang yang berusaha sebisa mungkin untuk mempertahankannya.
My birthday, 2017 |
Fotonya jadul sekali ya, masih polos semua. wkwk. Jujur saja aku kaget waktu kalian kasih kejutan di ulang tahunku tersebut (Yeay kejutan kalian benar-benar berhasil ya). Aku kira kita hanya teman biasa awalnya, dalam artian yasudah kenal saja habis itu masing-masing. Tapi ternyata aku salah,
Throughout life we experience many different kinds of friendships. On rare occasions, we encounter someone so special that we just know we met for a reason. There are the kinds of friendship that last forever no matter what city you live in or how often you speak, no matter how old you get or what phase of life you are in.
Berantem
Pernah berantem?
Pasti, sering banget. Banyak hal yang tidak sejalan, juga banyak salah komunikasi yang sering terjadi. Atau terkadang, tiba-tiba tidak mood saja, terus marahan deh. wkwkwk.
Lalu, apa yang terjadi setelah itu?
Tentu saja walaupun kita sadar pernah marahan, ngambek, tapi kita baikan lagi, secara natural kita seperti biasa lagi.
Coba tebak siapa yang gada di sini? hahaha |
Deep Talk
Setelah sudah memasuki masa-masa akhir kuliah sarjana, aku rasa kita semakin sering 'deep talk' (Meskipun aku yang paling susah jadi pembicara sih wkwkwk). Entah itu di kosan Defly, Ami atau Rani, kita tanpa sadar sudah semakin merasa nyaman dengan satu sama lain.
Bahkan memang, kita adalah tipe orang yang dewasa tapi tidak dewasa? hahaha, maksudku adalah, kalau kita main, kita seperti anak kecil. Kita heboh, mainan masak-masakan (masak makanan beneran sih ya), jalan-jalan bareng, benar-benar menikmati masa muda. Bukan membicarakan hal yang tentang gosip, atau tentang hal-hal lain yang tidak terlalu baik.
Thanks for...
Terima kasih telah membersamai di kala senang, susah, sedih, maupun di kala hidup sedang biasa-biasa saja.
Terima kasih telah hadir di sisiku.
Unofficially became a Vet 👻 |
Do you see how happy I am in this photo? That's simply a sign that I'm so grateful to be your best friend☺ |
Freundschaft ist eine seele in zwei körpern
Sabtu, Desember 03, 2022
Please, the photo actually wasn't focused on me, but this cat (of course we have known it😆, the cat (not you) is so cute ) |
Before I begin, I wanna entertain you with this funny story.
Once upon a day, a quiet day. I was at my work, in the smaller hospital branch.
Someone was approaching me who was standing in the pet shop to check on something.
🐥 : Does this pet shop also have a vet?
🐵 : Yes, miss.
🐥 : Is the vet still here?
🐵 : Yes, sure.
🐥 : Is it a woman or a man?
🐵 : A woman,
(after a long silence) ..... actually it's me ☺
🐥 : Oh sorry, doc. I thought it wasn't you because you're too young.
🐵 : ☺ (in my deepest heart : I'm not young anymore (btw, I'm also not that old) but well, thank you)
Hahaha. How was it? Was the story entertaining you enough?
No, not yet. We need more!
Hahaha. Yeah. Maybe later yaa-----
Actually I'm so sad, knowing that this year will end soon. It was like, I haven't done many things. I still need to do this and that.
However, I'm really grateful for what I've been through this entire year.
☑ Do you know, future Feni? That you're really trying hard (But you need to work and play harder for the following years).
☑ You need to know that consistency is a difficult thing but once it's already becoming your habit, it just flows.
☑ There is massive information out there, you need to filter that and evaluate yourself before you receive too much.
☑ Keep making time for the things you enjoy!
☑ Sometimes it's okay to feel both (:(
Well, ... It's hasn't ended just yet..
The story is always to be continued... and you need to know that, you are deserved to spread love and to be loved 💕
Happy New Year 🎊🎆 |
Sabtu, November 26, 2022
Have you ever cried over something over and over again?
Well, yeah I should admit that.
I did.
Nevertheless, I don't think that crying will help me to resolve my problems. I can feel sad but then I should recover. I found good advice that I should learn to keep going. "You’ll be hurt, you’ll be in pain. You’ll fall. That’s part of life. But as long as you get hold of yourself and get back up again, you’ll be fine. Don’t waste time. Don’t dwell too long on your mistakes. Learn from them and keep going. Life goes on." [Mufti Menk]
When I'm talking about that kind of problem, I enjoy turning my music on and listening to my playlists. One of them is a song by Nujabes. (Thanks to a friend's recommendation, I got to know him).
I would like to share my opinion about one of my favourites songs from Nujabes. It is a song which is titled 'Reflection Eternal'. It is a Lo-fi (low fidelity) music.
I love its rhythm and melody. It's very calming and relaxing.
Let's see the lyrics!
♪
Hair piled upPiled up high
You're a flower
You're a river
You're a rainbow ♪
Through the song, he wanna say that we need to keep our heads up and don't let life get us down. Let's be brave, chin up, and get over it! We can do it!
We also can say that every person has something inside. We need to embrace our full potential, so that we need to know ourselves better.
♪ You're a flower
Oh, flowers are pretty. They are also pure. Sometimes they aren't always flawless. Thus we're also perfect with our imperfections. We can't compare ourselves with others. We're unique.
♪ You're a river
What do you think when you see a river? Water flows fast and it's always flowing. We have to believe that this too shall pass. Nothing, good, or bad, lasts forever. No need to be worried about our problems too much. (Seems so perfect to be listened when we encounter a problem)
♪ You're a rainbow
Rainbow is colorful. We are always fascinated by its beauty. Just like rainbow that has many colors, Our good and bad days make our life complete. Everything can either be a blessing or a lesson. Oh yeah of course, rainbow is painted by God, so are we. We are created by God.
Isn't this song great?
その通りです!
In memoriam.
"I'm an ordinary guy, " He said. Yet he teaches us a great meaning of life.
I gathered some words from his fans. We all agreed that Nujabes taught us to accept who we are, have hope, be thankful for everything, don't be selfish, love your friends and family and treat your partners right. He also taught us that happiness can be found in the mundane, in everything we do.
Rest in Peace for him. ♡