Senin, Maret 13, 2023
Rabu, Maret 01, 2023
Hoarding a piece of feelings at a time.
What is it like?
Even though it won't be revealed, I'm sure our pure affection will definitely reach the person we're aiming for.
....... Even if it's late or not in our reference of time.
In terms of feelings, happiness becomes an innocent thing.
Often we ignore the feelings that are owned by ourselves, because we are more concerned with the feelings of others.
Sometimes we enjoy pain and sadness.
These become part of the feeling of anxiety if something bad happens to that person.
In fact, sometimes the ego is defeated, "As long as you are happy, I'm okay."
From the moment the feelings echoes in the mind, we could be blinded by it.
Logically goes, but is completely defeated by feelings.
If it's like that, whether we like it or not we are willing to sacrifice, willing to do something as long as the person can live a good life.
Even though the feelings isn't mutual, are we sure we are sincere?
Initially, it is undeniable that the sense of belonging always arises.
The feelings of wanting to be together.
The desire to continue to be considered there.
The fondness of wanting to be used as a reinforcement.
Stage of Being Sincere
However, there are those who reach the stage of being sincere.
She believes that basically, everything she does is to give happiness.
''It is more happiness to give, not to receive!"
Maybe we think that as a giver of happiness, there will surely be times when she will get bored, right?
That's right, the giver of happiness will feel boredom. However, if she is sincere, the giver of happiness will not think too much about reciprocity.
『The real test of sincerity is to see whether a person will help you even if he knows he will get nothing in return. The truth is anyone can help when there’s something to gain; but to help when there’s nothing in return shows true love & a beautiful heart』- Mufti Menk
The giver of happiness becomes someone who is good, continues to help, and is certain because there is a basis of feeling. But, when she is sincere, and stops giving happiness, it doesn't mean she is tired and reluctant to be a source of happiness for that person.
About Priority
It could be, she has found someone she prioritizes more. Because of that, this feeling shifts to the person she thinks is more deserving of it.
And once again, as long as you are happy that is fine, but as long as yourself are happy, has it ever occurred to you?
Well, let's consider for a moment, before we give something good.
As long as you are happy, but I do not suffer.
Also Read : Happiness Starts Within
Senin, Februari 27, 2023
Selasa, Februari 21, 2023
Perhaps, you see that others' people life are more colorful.
However, No, no.. That don't always happen that way.
Learn to be more grateful. Learn to be more ok.
This world is on rush. Full of people seeking for meaning.
The day without a meaning is also a good day.
Let's keep calm and enjoy the mundane life.
Because who knows, 『nothing happening means a gift from God to be in peace』.
Senin, Februari 20, 2023
Sabtu, Februari 18, 2023
A Short Escape and A Sudden Decision
Do you prefer to make a sudden decision or get fully prepared before you travel?
Well, sometimes I describe myself as a decisive person because I tend to decide something very briefly. That was the time when I had a mood to get some fresh air. I called it "A Short Escape and A Sudden Decision" for my past experience travel to Solo and its surrounding.
Keraton Mangkunegaran |
I was reflected about my sudden decision to go to my friend's place just about my current life lesson, which is said, "Sometimes when you least expect it, good things happen". That's about the time when I wanted to hang out somewhere not far from my town but not too close, also with a small budget :). And... woala! I felt happy for that short trip.
Go with The Flow
I asked a friend whether she could have a day off on the day I planned to visit her house. Unexpected thing had happened, she had a day off at that day because there was also her friend who would going to visit her home, the same time as mine. What a coincidence!
For make a long story short, there came the time when I was with my friend riding a motorbike from Ungaran to Klaten on that day. That was my first experience to travel there by motorbike. I didn't feel wore out because my mind was full of curiosity during the way there.
Klaten - Solo - Karanganyar
After almost two hours, finally we arrived safely to Klaten. Now, there were four of us. A good conversation just come out naturally, even though I was the oldest of them all. I was happy as they just speak to me casually. We talked about our jobs, Campus flashback, current relationship 😅, and many things. For some time, we had no idea where to go. Let's eat good foods first! Hahaha.
Fried Gurame or whatsoever (I don't remember). Very delicious😋 |
However, because we had been there, it wasn't complete if we didn't go to 'Umbul' to go for swimming. Actually, there is a famous place to go, but we weren't going there. It's much worthy then the famous one I guess. So, lesson learned. In this kind of situation, it's better to trust a person originally from the village.
Umbul Besuki |
Some pics we captured at Mangkunegaran |
Candi Cetho |
I Least Expect It and Good Things Happen
I don't really expect anything from this trip. I just want to go somewhere and enjoy my day off, let's say I don't want to stuck in my bed all day hahaha. However it turned out to be one of a good trip. Another lesson learned: "Don't put to much hope because it will hurt you so much, because sometimes when you least expect it, good things happen."
Sabtu, Januari 21, 2023
Kamis, Desember 22, 2022
Einstein's Law of Focus, he is a real genius! |
- 1. Create three columns: professional, personal (family, friends, etc.), and extracurricular (side projects, personal goals, etc.)
- 2. Choose one or two items from each list that are the most important (and hopefully also provide the greatest return), and put a star beside them.
- 3. Identify items that you could stop doing, today, without suffering any real consequences, and cross them out. Think of this step as pruning.
- 4. Look at the unmarked items and create a one- to three-week plan to complete them (or escape from them). Maybe that will mean not working on the starred projects for a short period of time, but that's OK. Think of this step as weeding.
- 5. Focus on the one or two important things that remain in each category -- and be ruthless about not adding any new items to the list, at least for a while. Just work the list.
Selasa, Desember 20, 2022
「From now on, I can be who I want to be」 『 Ha... Is that so? 』*Gudetama |
Happiness comes from within you. You'll never find it by chasing relationship, money, jobs, beauty. Happiness always starts within.
Minggu, Desember 18, 2022
my pandemic photo shoot of graduation |
another pandemic Photoshoot (online Photoshoot) |
Sabtu, Desember 17, 2022
「 For a while it was a hot sunny day
I ordered a glass of Iced Chocolate
Then came the rain
''Little bit cold, huh?"
I decided to put on my jacket
I drunk my Iced Chocolate
I forgot about the weather
I just continued to sip on my Iced Chocolate
Increasing my mood was my only intention 」
Life's just like that.
It happens to be a high up and a low down.
The tremendous feeling somehow just struck us without any sign.
It's just temporary.
Everything in this world is just passing by.
It's good to admit our feeling. Our sadness. Our happiness. Our emptiness.
.... And we can pile up again.
On a day, I was curious about Ninja, so I ended up to watch a YouTube video. But then, surprisingly I got really good words from him,
"I believe life has its ups and downs. If you're at your worst, you can only go up from there. For those who are doing well, try to maintain that. Make sure not to come down. But there will be times things get tough. So try to figure out a way so that you don't fall too hard. But if you come down, you'll eventually go back up. And when you're up, try to prepare for when you fall so it won't as bad. "
Minggu, Desember 11, 2022
Tidak ada persahabatan yang sempurna di dunia ini. Yang ada hanya orang-orang yang berusaha sebisa mungkin untuk mempertahankannya.
My birthday, 2017 |
Fotonya jadul sekali ya, masih polos semua. wkwk. Jujur saja aku kaget waktu kalian kasih kejutan di ulang tahunku tersebut (Yeay kejutan kalian benar-benar berhasil ya). Aku kira kita hanya teman biasa awalnya, dalam artian yasudah kenal saja habis itu masing-masing. Tapi ternyata aku salah,
Throughout life we experience many different kinds of friendships. On rare occasions, we encounter someone so special that we just know we met for a reason. There are the kinds of friendship that last forever no matter what city you live in or how often you speak, no matter how old you get or what phase of life you are in.
Berantem
Pernah berantem?
Pasti, sering banget. Banyak hal yang tidak sejalan, juga banyak salah komunikasi yang sering terjadi. Atau terkadang, tiba-tiba tidak mood saja, terus marahan deh. wkwkwk.
Lalu, apa yang terjadi setelah itu?
Tentu saja walaupun kita sadar pernah marahan, ngambek, tapi kita baikan lagi, secara natural kita seperti biasa lagi.
Coba tebak siapa yang gada di sini? hahaha |
Deep Talk
Setelah sudah memasuki masa-masa akhir kuliah sarjana, aku rasa kita semakin sering 'deep talk' (Meskipun aku yang paling susah jadi pembicara sih wkwkwk). Entah itu di kosan Defly, Ami atau Rani, kita tanpa sadar sudah semakin merasa nyaman dengan satu sama lain.
Bahkan memang, kita adalah tipe orang yang dewasa tapi tidak dewasa? hahaha, maksudku adalah, kalau kita main, kita seperti anak kecil. Kita heboh, mainan masak-masakan (masak makanan beneran sih ya), jalan-jalan bareng, benar-benar menikmati masa muda. Bukan membicarakan hal yang tentang gosip, atau tentang hal-hal lain yang tidak terlalu baik.
Thanks for...
Terima kasih telah membersamai di kala senang, susah, sedih, maupun di kala hidup sedang biasa-biasa saja.
Terima kasih telah hadir di sisiku.
Unofficially became a Vet 👻 |
Do you see how happy I am in this photo? That's simply a sign that I'm so grateful to be your best friend☺ |
Freundschaft ist eine seele in zwei körpern