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Sabtu, Februari 18, 2023

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A Short Escape Travelling to Solo

A Short Escape Travelling to Solo
Februari 18, 20230 Comments

A Short Escape and A Sudden Decision

Do you prefer to make a sudden decision or get fully prepared before you travel?

Well, sometimes I describe myself as a decisive person because I tend to decide something very briefly. That was the time when I had a mood to get some fresh air. I called it "A Short Escape and A Sudden Decision" for my past experience travel to Solo and its surrounding. 


Keraton Mangkunegaran


I was reflected about my sudden decision to go to my friend's place just about my current life lesson, which is said, "Sometimes when you least expect it, good things happen". That's about the time when I wanted to hang out somewhere not far from my town but not too close, also with a small budget :). And... woala! I felt happy for that short trip. 


Go with The Flow

I asked a friend whether she could have a day off on the day I planned to visit her house. Unexpected thing had happened, she had a day off at that day because there was also her friend who would going to visit her home, the same time as mine. What a coincidence!

For make a long story short, there came the time when I was with my friend riding a motorbike from Ungaran to Klaten on that day. That was my first experience to travel there by motorbike.  I didn't feel wore out because my mind was full of curiosity during the way there. 


Klaten - Solo - Karanganyar 

After almost two hours, finally we arrived safely to Klaten. Now, there were four of us. A good conversation just come out naturally, even though I was the oldest of them all. I was happy as they just speak to me casually. We talked about our jobs, Campus flashback, current relationship 😅, and many things. For some time, we had no idea where to go. Let's eat good foods first! Hahaha.

Fried Gurame or whatsoever (I don't remember).
Very delicious😋


However, because we had been there, it wasn't complete if we didn't go to 'Umbul' to go for swimming. Actually, there is a famous place to go, but we weren't going there. It's much worthy then the famous one I guess. So, lesson learned. In this kind of situation, it's better to trust a person originally from the village.

Umbul Besuki

Next, our destination was Keraton Mangkunegaran. I love to visit a place like this. 


Some pics we captured at Mangkunegaran 



It didn't end up just yet. We still had one tourist destination to go. That was fantastic because we need to travel for around 2 hours. What? I had no idea but we're all agreed that's why we decided to go. The location is situated in a mountain side, which is very steep and slippery road I could say. The temple is one Hindu Temple, yea I could feel the feeling of little Bali, hahaha. 

Candi Cetho



I Least Expect It and Good Things Happen

I don't really expect anything from this trip. I just want to go somewhere and enjoy my day off, let's say I don't want to stuck in my bed all day hahaha. However it turned out to be one of a good trip. Another lesson learned: "Don't put to much hope because it will hurt you so much, because sometimes when you least expect it, good things happen."
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Sabtu, Januari 21, 2023

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A Gentle January Reminder

A Gentle January Reminder
Januari 21, 20230 Comments
A life changing... 


You know that things are sometimes getting complicated when we're getting older. 

Why would that happen? 






We realized there's no exact structure about life because there's nothing in life is ever served on a platter. It's different with the pattern of our past, when we graduated at elementary school, we must continue to junior school, after that enter to senior school and so on. 

The abstract of the things. Be it the place you work at, the people you work for or the things you wish to achieve in life. 


Just like the "sometimes" we face in our everyday life. 
From finding new friends, to keeping old ones. 
From finding who you are, to being comfortable with it. 
From finding answer to some questions, to questioning everything we know. 


We also realize that when we grow older, everything we get in life comes at the cost of you asking for things, fighting for them and eventually putting into effort. 

So choose what you want to fight for and choose what keeps you sane. 
Listen to yourself and the ones you love. 
That's all that matters. 
That's all you're fighting for. 
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Kamis, Desember 22, 2022

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2023 Resolution: Understanding Einstein's Law of Focus

2023 Resolution: Understanding Einstein's Law of Focus
Desember 22, 20220 Comments

In 2022, I learned a lot. 

Aku belajar mengenali diri sendiri. 
I learned to love myself, content of what I am, found something new interesting things, know that I'm valuable, worth to be loved and spread more love. 

Namun, ada suatu hal yang masih perlu aku kenali lagi mengenai, 
Apakah aku mencari hal atau suasana yang baru hanya karena ingin menghindari dari apa yang sebenarnya sedang aku hadapi?

Aku menemukan aktivitas baru, mempunyai teman baru, dan aku pun semakin nyaman berkontemplasi dengan diri sendiri. Kerap kali aku memiliki 'alasan' untuk tidak segera melakukan kewajiban atau meskipun pada akhirnya aku melakukannya, rasanya seperti harus ada dorongan kuat dengan terlebih dahulu dengan melakukan aktivitas lain (di luar kewajibanku). 

Dan dari situ aku tersadar, bahwa aku perlu lebih belajar untuk fokus. 
I should learn to be more productive, accomplished, and fulfilled, of course starting from today.



https://www.inc.com/jeff-haden/einsteins-law-of-focus-how-to-be-more-productive-accomplished-fulfilled-starting-today.html
Einstein's Law of Focus, he is a real genius!

Dari artikel ini aku mulai tersadarkan bahwa sudah saatnya aku harus mulai menentukan hal-hal apa saja yang tidak bisa aku lakukan maka aku tidak perlu melakukannya untuk memulai membuat sebuah perubahan. 
According to Einstein
    「What you decide not to do can make all the difference」


Ada salah seorang temanku yang sudah mengatakan hal ini sebelumnya, tapi aku masih melawan dengan meyakinkan diri sendiri bahwa tidak apa-apa melakukan banyak hal yang membuatku senang, seperti berbagai macam hobi dan lainnya. Tapi seolah aku tertampar dengan kenyataan bahwa, waktu yang kita miliki kenyataannya terbatas dan setiap orang memiliki waktu yang sama, 1 x 24 jam. Perbedaannya adalah bagaimana cara kita untuk mengatur waktu tersebut dan menentukan prioritas.

Lebih lanjut, dari artikel tersebut aku juga belajar bahwa
「We are most productive when we focus on a very small number of projects 
on which we can devote a large amount of attention」


Jika menuruti ego, kita tidak akan pernah puas. Keingan kita sangatlah tak terbatas. Kita memiliki banyak impian, ini dan itu. Ingin menguasai ini dan itu. 
Nah, oleh karenanya, ada langkah-langkah untuk membantu kita menentukan fokus bidang kita dan bisa kita praktekkan. [Newport]

  • 1. Create three columns: professional, personal (family, friends, etc.), and extracurricular (side projects, personal goals, etc.) 
  • 2. Choose one or two items from each list that are the most important (and hopefully also provide the greatest return), and put a star beside them.
  • 3. Identify items that you could stop doing, today, without suffering any real consequences, and cross them out. Think of this step as pruning.
  • 4. Look at the unmarked items and create a one- to three-week plan to complete them (or escape from them). Maybe that will mean not working on the starred projects for a short period of time, but that's OK. Think of this step as weeding.
  • 5. Focus on the one or two important things that remain in each category -- and be ruthless about not adding any new items to the list, at least for a while. Just work the list.

Yuk, yuk, Feni. Kita perlu segera mencobanya.

Mari tentukan beberapa daftar resolusi atau tujuan yang sudah dijelaskan di langkah pertama. Lalu masing-masing ditulis dua resolusi. Nah, selanjutnya coret daftar resolusi yang kelihatannya benar-benar mustahil atau hanya impian sesaat belaka. Jika masih ada yang belum bisa dicoret dari daftar, mari tentukan berapa lama sampai benar-benar bisa mencoretnya. Selanjutnya, kerjakan daftar resolusi dengan memastikan langkah lanjutan yang harus dilakukan. 

「And then put your head down and focus on the tasks, projects, or goals that really matter.」
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Selasa, Desember 20, 2022

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Happiness Starts Within: Bahagia itu Tercipta Karena Diri Sendiri

Happiness Starts Within: Bahagia itu Tercipta Karena Diri Sendiri
Desember 20, 20220 Comments

“Hidup itu lucu, ya
yang dicari, hilang
yang dikejar, lari
yang ditunggu, pergi
sampai hati kita lelah dan berserah
saat itu semesta bekerja
beberapa hadir dalam rupa sama
beberapa lebih baik dari rencana” Nkcthi



Bagaimanya ya agar kita bisa bahagia? 

Resep kebahagiaan itu sebenarnya apa sih? Tiap hari kita disibukkan dengan dalih mencari kebahagiaan. Sering lupa waktu. Sering termakan waktu. Nyatanya, kadang kehidupan mengajarkan betapa kebahagiaan itu sejatinya tidaklah sulit untuk dicari. Karena kebahagiaan itu bisa timbul dari diri sendiri. 

Kita merasa bahagia karena kita sendiri yang menghendakinya. 


Lho, kok gitu sih? 




「From now on, I can be who I want to be」
『 Ha... Is that so? 』*Gudetama



Awalnya, aku juga ga paham (dan masih belum paham bener juga sih. Hahaha) kalau kebahagiaan sejatinya telah hadir di sekitar kita. 
Dulu sewaktu kecil, kita cenderung menjadi orang yang dicintai. Semenjak dewasa kita pun terkadang masih ingin dicintai, hingga terkadang sulit untuk menjadi orang yang pertama mencintai. Sehingga sering pula kita ingin mencari karakter yang kita inginkan dalam diri seseorang. Padahal cara yang tepat adalah menciptakan karakter tersebut pada diri sendiri. 


Well, namun tidak melulu harus tentang cinta. Kebahagiaan juga dapat kita rasakan segera setelah kita saat kita dapat menghirup napas dengan bebas. Pernah merasakan betapa sumpeknya saat kita dilarang melepas masker pada saat pandemi?
Kita telah dibekali kesehatan dan kebahagiaan oleh Sang Pencipta. Nikmat dan karunia tersebut merupakan segala anugerah yang perlu disyukuri agar kita bahagia. (Ingat itu ya, Fen!). 


Sewaktu kecil dulu, kita seringkali bahagia karena hal-hal kecil. Misal, saat bisa naik sepeda setelah jatuh kesekian kalinya, saat berhasil membuat layangan, saat dikasih uang jajan lebih, bahkan bahagia hanya karena disamperin di rumah untuk diajak main teman.
Kebahagiaan sepertinya nampak sangat dekat. Karena pikiran kita belum banyak dituntut oleh banyak hal di sekitar, dan kita memang bahagia karena hal sederhana.


Lantas saat dewasa, mengapa kita menggantungkan kebahagiaan kepada orang lain? 


Aku jadi inget kisah di film NKCTHI dan drama Be Melodramatic, kalau kebahagiaan itu kita yang nentuin, bukan orang lain. 

Seketika aku berpikir, benar adanya bahwa kita memang tidak bisa menggantungkan orang lain atas kebahagiaan kita pribadi. Kita bahagia karena kita memang yang menghendakinya. Meski, saat nanti jika punya pasangan atau anak, mungkin kita bakal berkata bahwa 'aku bahagia karena mu'. 

Memang benar adanya, bahwa kehadiran orang-orang di sekitar membuat jiwa kita menjadi tenang, membuat tentram, dan akhirnya kita bahagia. Lalu, bagaimana jika ternyata tiba-tiba orang itu pergi? 

Mungkin, memang rumit. Tapi, sederhananya. Bahwa kita lah yang menentukan bahwa diri kita berhak bahagia, kita sendirilah yang membuat diri kita bahagia, karena kita menghendakinya. 

Happiness comes from within you. You'll never find it by chasing relationship, money, jobs, beauty. Happiness always starts within. 

Dan, kebahagiaan itu sering terjadi karena kita melakukan, atau aktif, seperti aktif memberi, aktif mencintai, dan aktif berbagi. 


Kalau kubuktikan ya, memang saat kita 'aktif' kita tanpa sadar menghendaki diri kita untuk bahagia. Bahagia atas senyumnya, bahagia atas urusannya, dan bahagia atas pilihannya. 


Hehehe.. gak kok gak sulit. Kita tetap bahagia dengan hal-hal sederhana ⁠♪
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Minggu, Desember 18, 2022

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2 Years Becoming A Vet: Learning from Scratch

2 Years Becoming A Vet: Learning from Scratch
Desember 18, 20220 Comments
This day, 2 years ago... (18th of December 2020)

I managed to be an unofficial veterinarian. 
Congratulations!!!  🎉

(Little bit of nostalgia)
That time, I was tremendously happy, crying and grateful at the same time. 
And I was thanking myself for all I've been going through, these 5.5 years of unforgettable memories. I could be a veterinarian.... (relieved....). 

I remembered that day was surely my end point in order to get my degree. I had to take the exam, It's called a comprehensive exam. I had to pass it. And I feel somewhat relieved that I did the exam by Zoom Meeting instead of an offline comprehensive exam. (It should be held in a room consisting of two Vet-Candidates with 4 examinees and 20 attendees). However, I thought I still felt the same nerves.  Although I doubted myself (and tried not to), I always believed I could eventually make it to become a vet. And... I was so grateful, I passed the exam!!


Hi future Feni, let us rewind those stories! 
 
I had no background in this field (Like half of my friends also do) but, finally we could prove it. We could make it. 
We can be a veterinarian. 👌


my pandemic photo shoot of graduation 


I learned from scratch to become a veterinarian. 
What?? 
Presumably, I didn't have any basic or any strong intention at the time I entered the program. It's really true. I was having no role model nor having enough preparation about the idea of becoming a vet student (Did I really going to be a veterinarian? [Feni 2015]). 
Just like I've said, half of my friends also felt the same as mine. They didn't really want to become a vet. Some of them might be just having 50% consciously knowing that they were entering the program to become a vet. 

Well, learning from the very basics until the advanced mode was challenging. wkwkwk. 
It was the battle within my ego, my responsibility, and my life. I remembered that before I became a vet student, I was afraid of dogs. hahaha it's funny but it really happened. (Thanks to my friends who make me not afraid of dogs anymore, actually dogs are cute animals). 

Thanks to myself, families, friends, and lecturers. I could be one of the graduates. 


Learning from scratch also literally means I learned from cat scratches. My hands are full of cat's scratches. You know, they're cute animals, so they scratch their paws and the worst case is that they can bite us sometimes. hahaha. I hate the scar that is left on my hands (I don't really have an effort to remove them actually. wkwk). 


another pandemic Photoshoot (online Photoshoot)
 

Finally, I can't thank you enough for the past memories I have and the next challenge I will have.  I hope I can overcome it. 
I hope I can be a good vet. 
and there's still so much to do, to be a good vet. I should keep learning, believing in the process, and keep practicing!


"Manusya Mriga Satwa Sewaka"
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Sabtu, Desember 17, 2022

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It'll All Be Alright

It'll All Be Alright
Desember 17, 20220 Comments


「 For a while it was a hot sunny day

    I ordered a glass of Iced Chocolate

    Then came the rain 

    ''Little bit cold, huh?"


    I decided to put on my jacket

    I drunk my Iced Chocolate

    I forgot about the weather

    I just continued to sip on my Iced Chocolate

    Increasing my mood was my only intention 」



Life's just like that. 

It happens to be a high up and a low down. 

The tremendous feeling somehow just struck us without any sign. 


It's just temporary. 

Everything in this world is just passing by. 




  


It's good to admit our feeling. Our sadness. Our happiness. Our emptiness. 


.... And we can pile up again. 


On a day, I was curious about Ninja, so I ended up to watch a YouTube video. But then, surprisingly I got really good words from him, 

"I believe life has its ups and downs. If you're at your worst, you can only go up from there. For those who are doing well, try to maintain that. Make sure not to come down. But there will be times things get tough. So try to figure out a way so that you don't fall too hard. But if you come down, you'll eventually go back up. And when you're up, try to prepare for when you fall so it won't as bad. "


🎶

‘Cause The Sky Has Finally Opened
The Rain And Wind Stopped Blowin’
But You’re Stuck Out In The Same Old Storm Again
Let Go Of Your Umbrella
‘Cause, Darling, I’m Just Tryin’ To Tell Ya
That There’s Always Been A Rainbow Hangin’ Over Your Head
Yeah, There’s Always Been A Rainbow Hangin’ Over Your Head

It’ll All Be Alright


🎵 Kacey Musegraves - Rainbow🎵
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Minggu, Desember 11, 2022

Kata

Sound System : Persahabatan yang Tidak Sempurna

Sound System : Persahabatan yang Tidak Sempurna
Desember 11, 20220 Comments



Tidak ada persahabatan yang sempurna di dunia ini. Yang ada hanya orang-orang yang berusaha sebisa mungkin untuk mempertahankannya. 






We've been become best friends since our encounter in the faculty. 
You've all been there with me. 
We've been longing together. 
We're far apart after the graduation, but we're still maintaining our friendships. 
Thanks for not giving up on me. 


Hi, my Sound..

Apa kabar kalian saat membaca ini? Dimanapun kalian berada, semoga selalu diberi ketenangan hati dan kebahagiaan yaa... 

Ngomong-ngomong, persahabatan kita ternyata kuat, ya. Aku tidak hentinya mengucapkan rasa syukurku kepada kalian semua. Terima kasih ya, untuk segalanya. Bahkan hanya sekedar kehadiran kalian saja, itu sudah sangat berarti. 


Biar tidak tegang, mari nyanyi dulu! 
(^_^♪)





flashback time.... 

Oiya, siapa tahu dari kita ada yang lupa kenapa kita namain diri kita jadi Sound System. Atau mungkin jika ada orang lain yang membaca ini selain kalian, jadi tidak ada salahnya untuk kita sedikit perkenalan sekaligus kilas balik, bagaimana awal mula kita bisa sahabatan. 


Jadi bagaimana awal mula bisa deket? 
Kapan ya? wkwkwk aku juga sepertinya tidak begitu ingat secara detail. Singkat cerita, kalau tidak salah waktu itu kita di hari terakhir masa perkenalan fakultas dan melakukan foto bersama. Sebenarnya asal ngikut aja buat foto dan berakhir membuat grup Line bareng untuk ngirim-ngirim foto dan akhirnya kita jadi kenal lebih deket ya, kan? Kalau kalian percaya bahwa kita ini memang ditakdirkan saling bertemu, bukan hanya kebetulan semata, nah itulah yang aku yakini. 'We're meant to be together'. Ciee ...


Kenapa ya namanya Sound System?
Awalnya grup Line kita namai Support System, ya kan? Dan seiring berjalannya waktu kita mengubah namanya menjadi Sound System (ceritanya plesetan gitu). Dan kalian harus tahu dan memang sudah tahu, kalau sistem terbaik adalah 'Sound System'. 


Siapa aja sih? 
Tentunya ada aku yang nulis ini wkwk, terus ada sosok perempuan-perempuan hebat seperti Saras tetangga kosan baik hati yang selalu aku minta tebengi, Ami yang selalu gas dan motil kesana kemari, Defly sosok bijak yang pandai masak, Agi teratletis yang selalu gokil, Dele si tosca yang sering ngasih telur, Rani termager tapi yang paling pinter, dan Alica si kakak yang imuut banget. 


Momen Bersama
Hem.. Momen bersama ya? Sejauh kita berteman, kita ga selalu bareng kok ya. Apalagi kelasku yang sering beda. Paling samaan kalau ada kelas besar. Tapi semakin berjalannya waktu, banyak momen yang sering kita lakukan bersama. 



hahaha. Kalian semua pasti sudah pernah membuka Scrapbook ala-ala buatanku ini. 



My birthday, 2017 

Fotonya jadul sekali ya, masih polos semua. wkwk. Jujur saja aku kaget waktu kalian kasih kejutan di ulang tahunku tersebut (Yeay kejutan kalian benar-benar berhasil ya). Aku kira kita hanya teman biasa awalnya, dalam artian yasudah kenal saja habis itu masing-masing. Tapi ternyata aku salah, 

Throughout life we experience many different kinds of friendships. On rare occasions, we encounter someone so special that we just know we met for a reason. There are the kinds of friendship that last forever no matter what city you live in or how often you speak, no matter how old you get or what phase of life you are in.

                  

Berantem

Pernah berantem?

Pasti, sering banget. Banyak hal yang tidak sejalan, juga banyak salah komunikasi yang sering terjadi. Atau terkadang, tiba-tiba tidak mood saja, terus marahan deh. wkwkwk.

Lalu, apa yang terjadi setelah itu?

Tentu saja walaupun kita sadar pernah marahan, ngambek, tapi kita baikan lagi, secara natural kita seperti biasa lagi. 

Coba tebak siapa yang gada di sini? hahaha


Deep Talk

Setelah sudah memasuki masa-masa akhir kuliah sarjana, aku rasa kita semakin sering 'deep talk'  (Meskipun aku yang paling susah jadi pembicara sih wkwkwk). Entah itu di kosan Defly, Ami atau Rani, kita tanpa sadar sudah semakin merasa nyaman dengan satu sama lain. 

Bahkan memang, kita adalah tipe orang yang dewasa tapi tidak dewasa? hahaha, maksudku adalah, kalau kita main, kita seperti anak kecil. Kita heboh, mainan masak-masakan (masak makanan beneran sih ya), jalan-jalan bareng, benar-benar menikmati masa muda. Bukan membicarakan hal yang tentang gosip, atau tentang hal-hal lain yang tidak terlalu baik. 


Thanks for...

Terima kasih telah membersamai di kala senang, susah, sedih, maupun di kala hidup sedang biasa-biasa saja. 

Terima kasih telah hadir di sisiku. 


nemenin seminar S1
Ami ngapain? wkwkwk













Unofficially became a Vet 👻




Walaupun aku tidak sempurna sebagai teman kalian, but thanks for becoming the story of my life. 



Do you see how happy I am in this photo? 
That's simply a sign that I'm so grateful to be your best friend☺ 


Psst... Postingan ini adalah janji yang baru bisa aku tepati untuk Sound System :)

Freundschaft ist eine seele in zwei körpern
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Sabtu, Desember 03, 2022

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How were you in 2022

How were you in 2022
Desember 03, 20220 Comments


Happy New Year  (Soon)!

Um... How were you in 2022 anyway? 


Let's take a look on this little story first ^^



Please, the photo actually wasn't focused on me, but this cat (of course we have known it😆, the cat (not you) is so cute ) 


Before I begin, I wanna entertain you with this funny story.

Once upon a day, a quiet day. I was at my work, in the smaller hospital branch. 

Someone was approaching me who was standing in the pet shop to check on something. 

🐥 : Does this pet shop also have a vet?

 🐵 : Yes, miss. 

🐥  : Is the vet still here? 

🐵 : Yes, sure. 

🐥 : Is it a woman or a man? 

🐵 : A woman, 

      (after a long silence)  ..... actually it's me ☺

🐥 : Oh sorry, doc. I thought it wasn't you because you're too young. 

🐵 : ☺  (in my deepest heart : I'm not young anymore (btw, I'm also not that old) but well, thank you) 


Hahaha. How was it? Was the story entertaining you enough? 


No, not yet. We need more! 

Hahaha. Yeah. Maybe later yaa-----


Actually I'm so sad, knowing that this year will end soon. It was like, I haven't done many things.  I still need to do this and that. 

However, I'm really grateful for what I've been through this entire year. 


☑ Do you know, future Feni? That you're really trying hard (But you need to work and play harder for the following years). 

☑ You need to know that consistency is a difficult thing but once it's already becoming your habit, it just flows. 

☑ There is massive information out there, you need to filter that and evaluate yourself before you receive too much. 

☑ Keep making time for the things you enjoy!

☑ Sometimes it's okay to　feel both　(:(


Well, ... It's hasn't ended just yet.. 

The story is always to be continued... and you need to know that, you are deserved to spread love and to be loved 💕



Happy New Year 🎊🎆









 
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Sabtu, November 26, 2022

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Reflection Eternal by Nujabes ♪This Too Shall Pass

Reflection Eternal by Nujabes ♪This Too Shall Pass
November 26, 20220 Comments


Have you ever cried over something over and over again?

Well, yeah I should admit that. 

I did. 

Nevertheless, I don't think that crying will help me to resolve my problems. I can feel sad but then I should recover. I found good advice that I should learn to keep going. "You’ll be hurt, you’ll be in pain. You’ll fall. That’s part of life. But as long as you get hold of yourself and get back up again, you’ll be fine. Don’t waste time. Don’t dwell too long on your mistakes. Learn from them and keep going. Life goes on." [Mufti Menk]


When I'm talking about that kind of problem, I enjoy turning my music on and listening to my playlists. One of them is a song by Nujabes. (Thanks to a friend's recommendation, I got to know him). 

I would like to share my opinion about one of my favourites songs from Nujabes. It is a song which is titled 'Reflection Eternal'. It is a Lo-fi (low fidelity) music.


I love its rhythm and melody. It's very calming and relaxing. 

Let's see the lyrics! 


♪

Hair piled up
Piled up high
Your hair piled up
Piled up high

You're a flower
You're a river
You're a rainbow  ♪







♪Hair piled up
   Piled up high
   Your hair piled up
   Piled up high


Through the song, he wanna say that we need to keep our heads up and don't let life get us down. Let's be brave, chin up, and get over it! We can do it! 

We also can say that every person has something inside. We need to embrace our full potential, so that we need to know ourselves better. 


♪ You're a flower 

Oh, flowers are pretty. They are also pure. Sometimes they aren't always flawless. Thus we're also perfect with our imperfections. We can't compare ourselves with others. We're unique. 


♪ You're a river 

What do you think when you see a river? Water flows fast and it's always flowing. We have to believe that this too shall pass. Nothing, good, or bad, lasts forever. No need to be worried about our problems too much. (Seems so perfect to be listened when we encounter a problem)


♪ You're a rainbow

Rainbow is colorful. We are always fascinated by its beauty. Just like rainbow that has many colors, Our good and bad days make our life complete. Everything can either be a blessing or a lesson. Oh yeah of course, rainbow is painted by God, so are we. We are created by God. 


Isn't this song great? 

その通りです！ 


In memoriam. 

"I'm an ordinary guy, " He said. Yet he teaches us a great meaning of life. 

I gathered some words from his fans. We all agreed that Nujabes taught us to accept who we are, have hope, be thankful for everything, don't be selfish, love your friends and family and treat your partners right. He also taught us that happiness can be found in the mundane, in everything we do. 


Rest in Peace for him. ♡
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Jumat, November 25, 2022

Vet

Animal Communication, is it Really Possible?

Animal Communication, is it Really Possible?
November 25, 20220 Comments

Being a vet is awesome, we can't talk to animals, yet we can try to give them the best treatments. However, as a vet, we often imagine that how if animals can tell us their disease complaints and what they really feel? That of course will help us to diagnose the diseases. 


How if, it's possible that we can actually talk with animals?



A Group Photo of participants

Last wednesday, I got an unforgettable chance to attend a seminar which was held by one of pet food's producers. There, we learned great things from reputable speakers. They were drh Rajanti who talked about 'Study case: Balancing hormones by hypnotherapy methods' and Ms. Ira who talked about 'Boost your Business with Effective Communication Skills'. In this blog, I want to share some experiences what I got from drh Rajanti. I was so excited to meet her as she is well known for her ability in Animal Communication. 


Mind Power

First thing first, what I got from the seminar was that I need to know how our mind works. Basically, mind works in two levels- conscious and subconscious. When we are thinking, it is where our mind works consciously. Meanwhile our subconscious minds is the seat of our emotions, which is the creative mind. It was being said that our subconscious mind is quite sensitive with our thought. 


drh Rajanti 


Animal Communication: The Telepathic Connection

The word telepathic itself means 'feeling across the distance'. It involves direct transmission of feelings, intentions, thoughts, mental images, impressions, sensations, and pure knowing. Animals communicate with human and among each other telepathically. They can understand our emotions, thought behind words even the words themselves aren't totally understood. 


Hypnotherapy

Actually, animal communication is basic level of mind power method. An animal communicator gathers information from the animals by communicating with them. And hypnotherapy is an advance level of that. Hypnotherapy can help animals who have medical conditions in which physiological factors influence physical symptoms. Sometimes animals show certain physiological conditions in which we can not determine their conditions from various lab works. Thus, hypnotherapy is useful to treat this condition. 


Study cases 

Unfortunately, I didn't get the detailed file about the study cases, so it could only we get if we attend the seminar. However, from what I've learned is that, even tough it may seem not logic, animal communication is possible. And if we practice mind power method, we can enhance and unblock our full potential.  


What do you think, guys?

Do you find it interested and are you willing to learn this method?
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Jumat, November 18, 2022

Opini

Let's Recap our Day!

Let's Recap our Day!
November 18, 20220 Comments



Evaluation and reflection need to be done each day. These allow us to refresh and have quality time with our own self. 


Have you ever tried to have a conversation with yourself?


The method can be different for each person. 
Even though you have a busy schedule, we still need to have a good conversation just with ourselves. The easiest way is to reflect on our day around 5 minutes before sleep. 
Just spare 5 minutes of yours, then think about your activities for the day.
It is also good if we can make the recapitulation once a month at minimum. 


In order to get to know yourself better, shouldn't we have a deep talk with ourselves?


There is another way to make a reflection which can be done through writing. If you're not that kind of person who writes your days in a diary, then how about you just give it a try to recap your current activities by writing them in any media? Of course, you should make sure that you follow social media rules and keep things private. With this method, I believe that we can focus on yourself to evaluate what we have done as a regular basis. 

Sometimes it's a good idea to just know ourselves better, don't we?
 

"Make a reflection before we consume (too much) information. "

There's some ideas to be written in your journal. Embrace yourself and let's take a look at your current activities with these Journaling Mind Dumps!


I found it on Insta. These questions help us to recap our days. 


1. What have I been doing lately?

2. Big/ important things that have happened?

3. How am I feeling about life at the moment?

4. Highs and lows of the past 3 months?

5. Things I've learned lately?

6. Things I want to improve?

7. Anything and everything that comes to mind. 


With just these 7 Questions, let us try to go back and then start to make ourselves better!


Let's get started to try them because, 

"You will never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine."
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Rabu, November 16, 2022

Opini

How if We Just Make it Slow?

How if We Just Make it Slow?
November 16, 20220 Comments

"Did you find yourself happy?"

Have you been asked by someone that question?


or instead asking that question, they prone to ask these disturbing questions, 

''Why haven't you married to someone?"

"How couldn't you buy your own car?"

"You're graduated from a top university, why still live like this?"

"How if you should.... bla..bla..!!!


Right now, with rapid information and fancy technologies, we are always rushing to get everything. We want everything to be quick. We define success with only superficial categories. We crave connections. We are so often presented with quick hits. Short sharp videos, drama, and theatrics. 



It's the time to connect with nature. Photo by M. 


... we often forget small kinds of happiness. 


The magic of life isn't always found in big moments, big events, and big achievements. Its pure shape is in the mundane, in the little moments. 


There's no need to rush. What God has for you always arrives on time.   

 

Slowing down, more depth in what we create and what we do. It's not just what we want, it is what we need. What matters most is not working endlessly but going in the right direction. Slowing down is a way to speed up.



•• Take a deep breath. Relax. Feel the nature. Open your window and see the morning scenery •••

•• Allow yourself to tune into the source and yourself. It's time to reflect, be honest and re-prioritize •••


•• It is time to connect with friends and family, with nature, with ourselves •••


However, what we want is slow, it is time to just be...  o(〃＾▽＾〃)o





 
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